Hang on baby girl, its gonna be a bumpy road

After I had Hailey it took me some time to adjust. It wasnt just me anymore that i had to worry about.  After the test results came back that, the bullrider was in fact her dad, i started getting emails, he would say i was ruining his life and his marriage. Ok yeah because you told me you were married. I gave him every opportunity too see his daughter. When Hailey was three, he decided to meet his daughter for the first time. He brought his girlfriend along and we attended the state fair. He had won Hailey a little stuffed animal. His girlfriend was jealous. To say the least. He than came, and brought his other daughter, and they went shopping.  Than two years went by before he seen his daughter again. Fast forward two years and he met us out at the lake where we were camping.  He spent the day with Hailey and than stayed the night. He tried to get me to sleep with him and suggested that we try to work on things and be a family. I declined. When Hailey and I woke up the next morning he was gone. Hailey stayed in touch with his mother and seen her on a regular basics. Up until her death, when she committed suicide. This was extremely hard on Hailey. This was the only link she had to her dad. It sent her into a very deep depression. At 16 Hailey went to spend Christmas with her dad. She didnt know him, she was so home sick, but she has continued to stay in touch with him to this day. Hailey is now 18.